Turn It Off!
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Are Our Phones Smarter Than We Are?
Smart phones are like our very own personal assistants (who we can even have a conversation with). Appointments, dinner dates, meetings, and deadlines are recorded to keep us on track. Email and Internet access are easy to use with the touch of a button. We can even scan prices of items when we shop (who needs customer service?). We no longer even have to wait in bank lineups to manage our accounts.
Because of the accessibility that smart phones provide, we often feel a need to have them around us 24/7. They wake us up in the morning (sometimes before) and even follow us to our bathroom. Somehow, we have adopted the habit of our phones joining us at the dinner table or while eating in restaurants. When do we consider our phones as intruders in our lives? Possibly when we can answer yes to any of the following questions:
- Do you have more conversations with your phone than with people around the dinner table?
- Do you text members of your family within the same household when they are just in another room?
- On vacation, is one of your first questions an inquiry about wi-fi?
- Do you allow phone interruptions to take precedence over your current person-to-person conversation?
- Does your phone accompany you to the bathroom? (Really?)
Smartphones can have a significant impact on children’s social development. An article from Dr. Michael Gabriel from GPM Pediatrics says that “children are missing out on how to learn language, learn about their emotions and how to regulate them, learn how to carry out a conversation and how to read each other’s facial expressions.”
Can we come to a consensus that we may be addicted to our phones and that, until now, we didn’t fully realize the impact they have on our lives, well being, and relationships with others?
There are easy ways to reduce the time with our phones. Counselling isn’t likely to help you decrease dependency on your “smart” phones, however, short-term counselling can help rebuild relationships and develop the social skills required to maintain healthy relationships. Contact us today!