Our society today does not seem to support this “traditional” vow. Whatever happened to “for better or for worse”… “in sickness and in health” … “for richer or for poorer”? I guess more contemporary vows are supposed to read “until serious struggles arise that we can’t handle on our own”… “unless I change my mind”… and “except if I’m no longer feelin it.”  Seriously, who would sign up for this type of commitment?

So, what is the benefit of long-term committed romantic relationships? One of the lesser-known benefits of marriage is memory and identity. Couples help one another with story-telling, co-creating memories to tell and re-tell. That trip down east, decorating the house, dealing with a child’s illness, and celebrating great moments in time are just a few examples of events woven into the couple’s identity. Intimate companionship and an avenue for truly healthy sexual expression are the distinctive aspects people may give as the value of marriage. And for many, reproduction and child-rearing in partnership bring great satisfaction that is well worth the challenges and stress associated with building a life-long romance.

Maybe these benefits contribute to the 62% of marriages in Canada that surpass the 30th-anniversary mark!

Healthy relationships are built upon a commitment to learning from each other daily, helping each other become the most amazing spouses possible and being open to guidance and support to accomplish this goal. Why not “till death do you part”? After all, isn’t that what’s in our hearts, dreams and wishes? … forever!

Romantic relationships never stop growing & evolving. Keeping the sparks alive to foster vibrant long-term relationships takes effort and we have some great tips! These tips can help couples feel more connected as they grow in their love and understanding of each other’s needs. You and your partner can achieve an even deeper and more intimate relationship as the years roll by.

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