My Parents are Getting a Divorce: What a Relief!

Photo credit: ainsliejoon from Morguefile.com Arguing every day about the smallest things. Telling me that my dad is selfish and doesn’t care about anything but himself.  Complaining that mom is an annoying nag, who can’t get a grip. I don’t know whether having both...
Why Co-Parent with Someone I Don’t Like?

Why Co-Parent with Someone I Don’t Like?

Post Separation Thoughts and Behaviours Really Matter Let’s consider why we think we may have a difficult time co-parenting with our ex-partners: She/he has an addiction and refuses to get help. Who knows who she/he will have around my child? She/he has repeatedly...

Separation or Divorce: Should I leave him? Should I leave her? We have kids, what do I do?

So many people make this decision far too quickly and with very limited and or biased information.  After working in the counselling field for over twenty years, I have grown increasingly “pro family”. We often hear the following two main thoughts about separating… “I...