While it’s definitely a blessing to have a job, we must also remember the importance of taking time off to recharge and restore ourselves. Of course, the idea of planning a vacation can sometimes feel like just another task on our already overflowing plates. But the truth is, a little bit of preparation can go a long way in making the holiday experience more enjoyable. A well-planned getaway reduces stress, lowers the chances of unpleasant surprises, and ultimately increases our chances of having the kind of break we truly need.

It’s funny, though—often, we invest more time and energy into planning a vacation than we do into planning the other areas of our lives. We spend hours researching the perfect destination, choosing the right hotel, and budgeting for activities—but do we put that same level of thought into our relationships, our career goals, or the things that matter most to us in the long run?

In both work and life, it helps to think ahead, set clear goals, and manage expectations. But it’s also crucial to reflect on the qualities we want to nurture in ourselves and in our relationships—with our partners, our children, our families, and even our colleagues. Why not take advantage of the time off to intentionally focus on this? Maybe it’s something we can start practicing during our holidays.

For some of us, this might already be part of the routine: using time away from the grind to check in with ourselves and those around us. We can take stock of both our personal growth and our connections with others, and think about how we can be better people, partners, parents, and colleagues.

So, yes, we can travel for rest and relaxation—but we can also use this time to chart a course for improving our personal journeys, both inwardly and outwardly. A holiday, after all, doesn’t just have to be a break from work—it can be a break toward a better life.